July/Aug 2010

"Awe came upon everyone, because many wonders and signs were being done by the apostles. All who believed were together and had all things in common." Acts 2:43-44

 All Things in Common

 In my opinion, our recent annual conference was one of the best-if not the best-gatherings we've had since I have been your bishop. There was just something special about that assembly that only now am I able to capture in words.

Part of it was the spirit of the people. It seems that every year the people of OIMC seem eager to come together for worship and celebration. More than anything our meeting was a reunion and a revival. It was a happening. It was our time under God to witness what God had done and continues to do in our lives, our churches, and our conference. However, the biggest factor in making our meeting special was the fact that we seemed to have "all things in common." Now that doesn't mean disagreement did not exist over some issues, nor were all our motions and votes unanimous. It means there seemed to be this ever-present feeling that we were "all in this thing together," and that regardless of our differences, the most important thing was surrendering our will and our lives to God, who in the end would keep us united.

 

I believe that's what took place in Acts 2. There was no way that the new converts to this "Jesus movement" could know what the leaders had in mind or even what direction they were going, but somehow they knew they were connected to a happening that was larger than life and greater than any individual.

I truly believe that God has brought us to a place in our journey where we understand that we must "have all things in common" to insure our future so we can survive the turbulent waters of uncertainty and doubt. The Oklahoma Indian Missionary Conference has existed nearly 170 years, and we could not have gotten this far on our own. I'm sure there were differences of opinions and divisions along the way, but God has put our feet on Holy ground where the only way we can move forward is to acknowledge His presence at every turn, and continue to put our trust and faith in His guidance. We are part of a tribe that is larger than any one group, and I believe we know that.

 

I came away from our conference excited, re-energized, renewed and determined to follow the path that God has put us on. I ask every pastor, layperson, congregation and church to come go with me. Let us roll up our sleeves and see what God has in store as we seek to build upon the unity which was there in Preston, Oklahoma for four days.

May God bless you all,

Bishop Hayes

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May-June 2010

My cup overflows" Psalms 23:5b RSV

Filling Our Cups

"All United Methodist congregations in Oklahoma have the potential to grow and multiply. But some of us operate according to the myth of scarcity.

Author and preacher Jim Moore told the story of a man driving home after work one summer day who spotted children selling Kool-Aid at a corner stand. Wanting to encourage the young people, he stopped and rolled down his car window to place his order. Right away, one child walked up and asked the man if he wanted grape or strawberry flavor. The man picked grape, and he gave the boy a quarter. The child carried the drink to the man in his car and the man savored every drop remembering the days when he was young. But there was a problem. The boy continued standing by the car. After a few awkward moments, the boy asked, " Are you just about finished?" The man said, "Well, yes but why?" And the child said, "That's the only cup we have. We need that cup to stay in business."

God's grave my be overflowing but all too often but all too often we are living as though we have only one small cup. I have listened intently to the hopes, dreams, anxieties, and concerns of the people of our Conference. I have heard fears expressed by lifelong United Methodists who are worried about the future of our denomination. I have felt the pain of discontinuing congregations and filling out paperwork for abandoned houses of worship; I have wept with people as they told me their congregations were dying.

On the other hand, I have celebrated with churches observing significant growth, events and anniversaries. I have participated in ribbon-cutting ceremonies for congregations as they completed building programs and I have turned over a lot of dirt for churches that were just beginning to build.

I believe God has given us every gift needed to fulfill God's purpose for Oklahoma Indian Missionary Conference. God is an abundant giver.

Preaching at our denomination's 2008 General Conference, Bishop Mary Ann Swenson noted the Latin rood of the word "abundant" is a-b-u-n-d-a-r-e. That root word means "to flow" like water in a wave. When combined with the prefix a-b, it means "to overflow." Thus, "abundance" means overflowing. You've read the Psalmist's words: "My cup overflows."

God has blessed us with some of the strongest churches in our denomination, with the most gifted clergy and lay leadership to be found anywhere. I do not buy the assumption that we cannot change the condition in which we find ourselves--because I firmly believe God has poured out everything needed for the mission of the Church.  The key to all of this may be found in the word "cup."

For us, this is the symbol of the cup, the chalice, is central to our identity as Christians. We are the people who are known by our practice of gathering at the table and lifting the bread and the cup, of remembering this cup as a sign of God's covenant.

When the cup is empty, its purpose is to be filled. When the cup is full, its purpose is to be emptied. It gives what it receives. It receives so it can be poured out. Our challenge is to find ways to make that happen.

God bless you all, 

Bishop Robert Hayes, Jr  

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Mar/Apr 2010

"Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes." - Matthew 6:34, (The Message)

Just For Today

It is truly hard to believe our journey has brought us not only into another year but also another decade. Ten years ago, people were running around like barnyard chicks in anticipation of Y2K! Do you remember how frantic people horded gas, water, guns, bullets, and even Spam, in preparation for the end? That seems foolish now, but at the time the fear was so real for some.

That's why I write today--to remind you that we have a set of instructions on how to live into the years and decades of our lives. If we follow those directions, there will be an absence of fear, doubt, and anxiety in 2010. (and no real need to stock up on Spam!)

These lessons of which I speak do not come from Bob Hayes. They come from the greatest teacher who ever lived. His ideas and philosophy for living are just as good in 2010 as they were when he taught them more than 2,000 years ago. He taught in such simple words that anyone--from the very young to the very old--can follow his tutoring.

Study with me these timeless words of the master teacher, Jesus.

Live one day at a time

In Matthew 6:34, we find Jesus' directive to live one day at a time.

Now I know you've heard this advice before, but have you really taken it to heart? If 2010 is going to be different than 2009 (and from any time spent in meaningless living), you at least should live for today and see how it works. Surely you should be able to follow this advice for one day.

This teaching was so important to Jesus. He knew people rob each day of its blessings and pleasures by worrying over what is yet to come, what should or should not come, and how it will look when it gets here.

Why can't you give your full attention to what God is doing today? Why not try to get the most from those precious 24 hours?

Just for today, choose to be unafraid of life, undaunted by death, confident in happiness, and aware of the beautiful.

Too many people are afraid to enjoy the life that God gave them. Someone has convinced them that they cannot embrace joy each and everyday they live. Somewhere along the way, they have been told that they must give in to misery and worry that; these come with living.

This is absolute nonsense!

Problems and difficulties confronted Jesus, yet he said so much about happiness and discovering the beauty of God's Kingdom. He never let his enemies or anyone else get him down. No one drained his enthusiasm for life.

As you reflect on these words from Matthew, Jesus is asking you this question: Of what value is it to wake up each day afraid and fearful over what may or may not happen to you? When you do that, you are cheated of the endless possibilities of that day.

Just for today, let us live this one day only--forgetting yesterday and tomorrow--and not try to solve the whole problem of life all at once.

Just for today, let us adjust to what is--family, business, the need to love and be loved--and not try to make over the world to suit us!

Just for today, let us be at our best--agreeable, responsive, cheerful, charitable, dressing our best, walking softly, praising people for what they do instead of criticizing them for what they cannot do--and if we find fault, let us forgive it.

Just for today, let us not hurry, worry, or fly off in a flurry! Neither let us hem and haw about a decision, but snap it out, cut the knot, and be done with it.

Just for today, let us not unsettle people's nerves and let us not be unnerved by people; instead, let us appreciate the noble and gracious things they do.

Just for today, let us ditch all grudges we hold because life did not give us what we think we deserved.

Just for today, let us study something useful that requires attention, concentration, and a bit of real thinking. Also, let us do a good turn for someone else as well. 

Let us not show anyone that our feelings are hurt, and if they are hurt, let us hide them with a smile.

Just for today, let us make time for quiet, to relax, to reflect on what life is, and to resolve to make more of our lives. Let us take time to think about God and to get ourselves aligned with Christ's advice, our lives untangled and clean.

Then, after having done all these things just for today, start again tomorrow. Just be sure to wait until tomorrow comes.

Blessings,

Bishop Hayes

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